Become a Harder Target
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One book of your choice. One sweatshirt. One PAUSE bottle. All in one thoughtful gift box.
A thoughtful gift should be as useful as it is meaningful.
Whether you're recognizing a colleague, appreciating a teacher or helping a child develop safer habits, the Harder Target Gift Box™ lets you choose a book that speaks to the person receiving it.
Each box includes one book of your choice, a “Your Urgency Isn’t Mine.” sweatshirt and a PAUSE bottle, bringing together practical lessons and everyday reminders to slow down, think critically and make better decisions.
What's inside
One book of your choice: Choose from four books by Dami Eluyera, each designed for a different audience and purpose:
The Pause Playbook (Ages 4–8): Helps children recognize pressure, ask questions and involve a trusted adult when something feels wrong.
The Character Playbook (Ages 5–10): Helps children develop honesty, courage, self-control and good judgment through stories and activities.
Crumbs (Teens): A suspenseful story exploring trust, manipulation and the risks hidden in everyday interactions.
Blindspots (Adults & Professionals): Explores why smart people make risky security decisions and how to recognize the pressures behind them.
“Your Urgency Isn’t Mine.” sweatshirt: A comfortable, wearable reminder that someone else's urgency doesn't require an immediate response. Available in Small, Medium, Large and Extra Large.
PAUSE bottle: An everyday reminder to slow down, question the request and verify before acting.
Signature Securely Ever After™ gift box: Thoughtfully packaged and ready to give.
Make it theirs
1. Choose a book that fits your recipient's age, interests or needs.
2. Select a sweatshirt size: S, M, L or XL.
3. We'll package your selections with the PAUSE bottle in the signature Securely Ever After™ gift box.
Perfect for birthdays, holidays, employee appreciation, Cybersecurity Awareness Month, educators, colleagues and family gifting.
More than a gift, it's a practical way to encourage better judgment, stronger boundaries and safer everyday decisions.
Choose their book. Give them a reason to PAUSE.
Become a Harder Target™.
Help children make good decisions, even when nobody is telling them what to do.
The Character Playbook is a printable story and activity resource for children ages 5–10 that helps build the character and judgment children need to navigate friendships, pressure and everyday choices.
Through relatable stories and practical activities, children explore honesty, wisdom, courage, self-control and integrity while learning how to think through decisions for themselves.
Children learn to:
• Stop, think and ask before making a decision
• Recognize when friends or others are influencing their choices
• Tell the truth, even when it feels uncomfortable
• Set boundaries and speak up with confidence
• Think about consequences before acting
• Make choices that reflect what they know is right
Designed for use at home or in the classroom, The Character Playbook gives parents and educators practical ways to build good judgment before children have to use it in a difficult situation.
Ages 5–10 | Printable PDF | Instant digital download
Help children know what to do when something feels off.
The Pause Playbook is a printable story and activity resource for children ages 4–8 that builds simple, practical safety habits for everyday life and the digital world.
Through 5 relatable stories and 5 hands-on activities, children practise how to slow down, ask questions, check with a trusted adult and speak up when they are unsure or have made a mistake.
Children learn to:
• Pause instead of reacting quickly
• Ask questions when something doesn’t make sense
• Recognize pressure, secrecy and tricky situations
• Check with a trusted adult before acting
• Speak up when something feels wrong
• Know that making a mistake doesn’t mean they have to hide it
Designed for use at home or in the classroom, The Pause Playbook helps adults turn safety conversations into skills children can actually practise.
Ages 4–8 | Printable PDF | Instant digital download
Why do smart people in well-protected organizations still make security decisions that lead to incidents?
Most organizations already have cybersecurity tools, policies, training and awareness programs. Yet preventable security failures continue to happen.
Blindspots: Why Security Still Fails in Smart Organizations examines what traditional security programs often miss: the conditions shaping human judgment before an employee clicks, shares, approves, transfers or reports.
Drawing on behavioral science, enterprise cybersecurity experience and real-world incidents, cybersecurity strategist Dami Eluyera explores how urgency, workload, authority, fatigue, incentives and workplace culture can influence security decisions, even among experienced and well-intentioned employees.
This is not a technical cybersecurity manual or another compliance checklist. It is a practical guide to understanding human risk at work and why security awareness alone is often insufficient when employees are making decisions under real operational pressure.
Inside, you’ll explore:
• Why intelligent employees still make predictable security mistakes
• How pressure and workplace conditions influence security decisions
• Why more awareness does not automatically produce safer behaviour
• How organizational culture can strengthen or weaken security controls
• What real-world cyber incidents reveal about human judgment
• How leaders can design security around how people actually work
Who is it for?
Blindspots is written for CISOs, cybersecurity and human-risk leaders, security awareness professionals, risk and governance teams, executives, people leaders and anyone responsible for building a more resilient security culture.
If your organization has invested in security but people are still expected to make the right decision under imperfect conditions, this book will help you understand the gap.
Format: Digital book
Author: Dami Eluyera