Become a Harder Target
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Some of the most consequential security decisions are made outside the security team.
A payment approved under pressure. A sensitive request that appears to come from an executive. A new employee added quickly. A vendor change that seems routine. A message that feels too urgent to question.
The Blindspots Box™ is designed for the people making those decisions.
Created by Securely Ever After™, this premium gift box gives cybersecurity professionals a practical way to extend security thinking beyond the security function and into teams such as Finance, HR, Operations, Procurement, Legal and Executive Support.
Inside:
Blindspots: Why Security Still Fails in Smart Organizations by Dami Eluyera, a book exploring why capable people can still make risky decisions under pressure, and what organizations can do about it.
“Your Urgency Isn’t Mine.” sweatshirt, a wearable reminder that someone else’s urgency does not require an immediate response.
PAUSE bottle, an everyday prompt to slow down, question the request and verify before acting.
Presented in the signature Securely Ever After™ box, designed as a thoughtful gift from security teams to the colleagues who help protect the organization every day.
Ideal for Cybersecurity Awareness Month, security champions, leadership teams, high-risk departments, workshops and employee recognition.
Because security does not only depend on what your security team does.
It depends on the decisions people make when urgency, authority and trust collide.
PAUSE. QUESTION. VERIFY.
Become a Harder Target™.
Help children make good decisions, even when nobody is telling them what to do.
The Character Playbook is a printable story and activity resource for children ages 5–10 that helps build the character and judgment children need to navigate friendships, pressure and everyday choices.
Through relatable stories and practical activities, children explore honesty, wisdom, courage, self-control and integrity while learning how to think through decisions for themselves.
Children learn to:
• Stop, think and ask before making a decision
• Recognize when friends or others are influencing their choices
• Tell the truth, even when it feels uncomfortable
• Set boundaries and speak up with confidence
• Think about consequences before acting
• Make choices that reflect what they know is right
Designed for use at home or in the classroom, The Character Playbook gives parents and educators practical ways to build good judgment before children have to use it in a difficult situation.
Ages 5–10 | Printable PDF | Instant digital download
Help children know what to do when something feels off.
The Pause Playbook is a printable story and activity resource for children ages 4–8 that builds simple, practical safety habits for everyday life and the digital world.
Through 5 relatable stories and 5 hands-on activities, children practise how to slow down, ask questions, check with a trusted adult and speak up when they are unsure or have made a mistake.
Children learn to:
• Pause instead of reacting quickly
• Ask questions when something doesn’t make sense
• Recognize pressure, secrecy and tricky situations
• Check with a trusted adult before acting
• Speak up when something feels wrong
• Know that making a mistake doesn’t mean they have to hide it
Designed for use at home or in the classroom, The Pause Playbook helps adults turn safety conversations into skills children can actually practise.
Ages 4–8 | Printable PDF | Instant digital download
Why do smart people in well-protected organizations still make security decisions that lead to incidents?
Most organizations already have cybersecurity tools, policies, training and awareness programs. Yet preventable security failures continue to happen.
Blindspots: Why Security Still Fails in Smart Organizations examines what traditional security programs often miss: the conditions shaping human judgment before an employee clicks, shares, approves, transfers or reports.
Drawing on behavioral science, enterprise cybersecurity experience and real-world incidents, cybersecurity strategist Dami Eluyera explores how urgency, workload, authority, fatigue, incentives and workplace culture can influence security decisions, even among experienced and well-intentioned employees.
This is not a technical cybersecurity manual or another compliance checklist. It is a practical guide to understanding human risk at work and why security awareness alone is often insufficient when employees are making decisions under real operational pressure.
Inside, you’ll explore:
• Why intelligent employees still make predictable security mistakes
• How pressure and workplace conditions influence security decisions
• Why more awareness does not automatically produce safer behaviour
• How organizational culture can strengthen or weaken security controls
• What real-world cyber incidents reveal about human judgment
• How leaders can design security around how people actually work
Who is it for?
Blindspots is written for CISOs, cybersecurity and human-risk leaders, security awareness professionals, risk and governance teams, executives, people leaders and anyone responsible for building a more resilient security culture.
If your organization has invested in security but people are still expected to make the right decision under imperfect conditions, this book will help you understand the gap.
Format: Digital book
Author: Dami Eluyera
Children are constantly being asked to act quickly. Click this. Answer now. Send it. Believe me. Don’t tell anyone.
The PAUSE Box™ helps teach the opposite habit.
Created by Securely Ever After™, this premium family gift box turns PAUSE into something children can read, wear and carry with them.
Inside:
The Pause Playbook by Dami Eluyera, a paperback story and activity book that helps children practise slowing down, asking questions, involving a trusted adult and speaking up when something feels wrong.
“Your Urgency Isn’t Mine.” sweatshirt, a wearable reminder that someone else’s pressure does not require an immediate response.
PAUSE bottle, an everyday reminder to stop and think before acting.
Presented in the signature Securely Ever After™ PAUSE Box.
A practical gift for raising children who are harder to rush, pressure and fool.
STOP. THINK. ASK.
Raise a Harder Target™.